OGA THE HELPER, SHEY YOU GARIT?

It's true that humans are naturally self-seeking and self-conceited, we naturally want to have our way but we can't rule out the fact that there's something in us that wants to always help people which is good.

Sometimes it can be out of our own selfish interest or because we love people.

One thing you need to know when you're helping people is this: sometimes what we spot in others is also our own vulnerable point. It means its also our weak point that we can see in others. 

You might have become stronger in that aspect and this might make you feel you have the strength and ability to help another, but this isn't always the case. You might not have conquered your demon.

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An example: a person smokes but after about 5 or 7 times of fighting the urge, he sees someone else who is smoking and he rushes to help, meanwhile the person is smoking as they are talking. The urge will come back in a stronger way and the person might just go back to his cigarettes or if you have a weakness for the other sex, then you should know that you should set boundaries in your own life and not try to rush to help.

The whole point is this: you have to be sure you are strong enough to stand on your own. if you want to help someone else, make sure your own life is patterned in such a way that you have a reserve that never runs out.