Some days
ago I stumbled on an article. A woman’s husband was actually chatting
“unguardedly” with his secretary. Thanks to smart phones and social media, he
could ping till midnight.
On this
particular day he came home late and exhausted and slept off immediately. His wife
was picking up his things when a message came in on his phone. It read “Sir,
I’m home now, thanks for the gift I absolutely love it, looking forward to
seeing you tomorrow, my regards to your wife”.
At the end
of the article, the writer said it was an emotional affair and not physical. This
is because there were no walls in their mind. They could feel vulnerable with
the other partner and not feel as though they hurt their spouses.
This
reminded me of my university days.
We were in
Church and a Pastor asked the girls who were virgins to raise their hands. A
particular girl did and he asked her if she was a virgin and she said she was a
secondary virgin.
She meant
she used to have sex until she became born again after which she pledged not to
ever have sex until her wedding night. One of my funny friends immediately told
me he was a University virgin.
This leads
me to my question
Can you
call that virginity?
Please
kindly answer by dropping a comment. Your answer would go a long way.
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credit: Relationshiphopes.com
Posts
thats nonsense na
ReplyDeleteif a man is in Christ old tins have passed away
ReplyDeletePple just throw dat around. Secondary Virgin ? Don't think so
ReplyDeleteLol! Once the hymen is broken physically, one automatically can't be a virgin. One can be a secondary virgin once one has received Jesus and forsaken once old way of sins and thence, there would no longer be remembrance of sins.
ReplyDeleteTrue that your sins are forgiven and old things have passed away but the person technically cannot be a virgin. They can be celibate and wait till marriage but the person is no longer a virgin.
Delete*ones old way of sins*
ReplyDelete*ones old way of sins*
ReplyDeleteI'm a primary virgin o!
ReplyDeleteShes celibate, but no longer a vigin. No such thing as a secondary virgin. The pastor sef, why is he asking that type of question? Hes going to make a lot of girls lie :)
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteHumans just have a way of creating things that will favour them
ReplyDeletewell, she might be....
ReplyDelete