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The man
said
“I went
for a party and I saw this beautiful lady sitting aloof at the party. We shared
a dance and we connected.
Mope was the most beautiful, shy and classy woman I
ever met. One of the things I loved about her was that she was as sweet as a
bird and I loved her dress sense.
After we
had good jobs, we got married and had 3 children. After a while they got
terribly sick and she had to leave her job to take care of them while I was
transferred to Abuja. I spoke with an
Indian doctor who told me to do a number of things including a change of
environment. I gave her a number of instructions including changing our house
and school.
She
told me she obeyed and when I got home, they improved but to my surprise my
wife was no more. I met an old looking woman whose clothes could clean up the
whole world. She no longer wore her fancy clothes, make-up and hair that was
appealing to me.
She
told me she went to a Church where a Pastor prayed for her and the children and
that’s why they were well. She also said she was a member of the Church and she
was following their principle that’s why she changed.
It was
terrible, she was no longer appealing to me and at every given chance she was
trying to force the Church down my throat. I decided to move out of Lagos but I
came in once in a month to see my family. Sadly, my wife was bringing her
Church members home to pray and do vigils.
After a
while, it became unbearable. They kept calling me on phone to tell me I needed
prayers. I was fed up and I told my wife about it. She said I shouldn’t let the
enemy come between us. I told her it was her choice to make and she decided to
go with her Church and children.
It hurt
but I had to move on with my life. I met this other woman who was appealing to
me and we had a relationship going. She
got pregnant and I moved her into my house.
It was
her choice so I didn’t do anything wrong.
If you
were Benita what would your counsel be?
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ReplyDeleteHmmm, can't she do what her husband wants in her house?
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