Saturday, January 2, 2016

I WISH YOU THE BEST OF TEARS.



Happy New Year. I wish you every good and beautiful thing you wish yourself. I’m not a fan of New Year resolutions. This isn’t because I’m lazy but why should I make one or many when I know something my change midway?

That’s my kind of person!

I’m not asking you to be like me but find the path that works for you. What’s good for the goose may not be good for the gander.

I noticed no one wished another person the best of tears. I mean tears, cry and weeping.

Don’t be surprised. Being in tears means you’re sober or you regret and this is a useful state; you can decide to think things over and discover what will work for you. This is the best time to make decisions because you’re calm and you can see things better when you’re sober.

Do you know not all tears are bad? Sometimes you remember good things, good times, different memories and the tears will come down. I have a friend who has a problem with her eyes and the doctor says its because she doesn’t cry.

Another good thing is that shedding tears makes me feel lighter. You should take out the time to unburden and let it flow.

If it takes tears to help you think things through, then I wish you the best of tears this year.

photo credit: goodmenproject.com

4 comments:

  1. Crying...another side to it, would keep saying God forbid tears but this makes sense.

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  2. Cant you use another adjective not tears? although its good to unburden yourself.

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  3. Happy New Year Bolanle. When will we meet bcos I know you are my future bride.

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  4. I think you're awkward but that's a writer for you. Congrats on the proposal doh

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